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Wendi Gordon's avatar

A reader gave me permission to share their response anonymously:

I’m a suicide survivor.

It’s really important that loved-ones know that when somebody whom they suspect might be contemplating suicide is very suddenly remarkably better and brighter and relieved and excited, that is a huge red flag. In my own case this was how I felt and behaved when I made what I thought at the time was the best decision of my life - which was to end it, and in so doing remove myself and my family from agony and difficulty. Once I’d made that decision I couldn’t believe how much better, how hopeful, how euphoric I felt - everything felt perfect. And then I did 'what I did' that same day.

I was lucky. I survived, but recovery has been an incredibly long process.

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Sajel Bellon Ed.D, RP.'s avatar

Beautifully written, heartfelt. Offers great insights and things to consider as we grapple with this topic and people we care about.

I hope ypu find my contribution helpful as well. It takes a village to make a difference with this massive issue. So glad to be connected.

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